Infidelity…?
come from a family of 5 kids. A 40’s 50′ and 60’s brood. Mum and dad loved each other, working class people, three of the siblings are older now in the late 50′and 60’s me and my brother are children of the 1960’s.
Out of all of us, 4 of our lot have had wives or husbands that cheated on them, of my siblings 1 cheated on the partner.
Isn’t this a scary set of figures? All of us were equally devastated by their partners infidelity, (but only the one that was cheating got a divorce years ago)…
I am now in my 50’s also got divorced (making 2 of us now)and wondered if there is any such thing these days as a sacred relationship like my parents had? What is in store for naive people who grew up in a fairy tale example of two loving people who toiled and raised their kids with values and moral, and above all, to be loyal? Sorry to go on, but my heart saddens more and more as I read about all these hard stories and lack of hope situations people find themsleves in…
Your a total ar$e ‘Keeping it Real’…
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Sounds like your family is universally bad in bed and has poor decision making skills! What is the question?
I do beleive that there is such a thing as a sacred marriage. It’s all about compromise and making eachother happy. As far as the other spouse cheating…my dad always told me to keep my husband happy in bed…yeah, I know…weird that my father told me this. But, a friend of mine, her parents got divorced when we were really young cause her dad was cheating on her mom…and I talked to my dad about it, years later…and he told me that some women just make up excuses and lie because they don’t feel like having sex…some women become complacent in the relationship and don’t make themselves look good. So…I strive to be like what my father told me to be. To this day I love sex and I try to look attractive as I can.
I’m not saying this is the problem with the infidelity in your relationship…I’m just telling you what my father told me how to prevent it….and we will see if what he told me really works. I have only been married for 2 1/2 years…so what would I really know?
But, I do beleive in my heart that there are people out there that take marriage vowels seriously. Don’t be sad. It’s normal to feel that way in your situation. I wish you all the luck and love in the world, and I hope that the grass will be greener on the side.
Yes, there are some who honor the marriage vow. The secret is to hang out where those type of people hang out… generally a church, or doing "good works". It takes effort to find one. Dating services work, but only if you are very selective, careful, and don’t loose your heart. My daughter has a great marriage and there is no doubt in my mind that it will last forever.
My parents are in their 80’s and a hundred different times I feltthat they should have walked away from one another. there was verbal abuse, and denigration and a 1000 other things, but their generation didn’t divorce. There is not intelligent or anthopological and few sociological reasons for marriage as it is today. and people are opting out. If society and religion would get back to where it should be then divorce would be far less common. But that is wishful thinking.