I need some relationship “counseling”?
Im 13 in 7th grade, and i made a HUGE mistake. At the beginning of the year, i asked out a cute girl who i did not really build a relationship, bacause i was kinda depressed. i kinds thought she liked me. she would talk to me, and make jokes wit me, but after i asked her out, and she rejected me by saying "eew" (not kidding) everything fell apart. she doesnt talk to me or anything, and barely looks at me. in the mean time, people are taunting me from when i asked her out 5 MONTHS AGO!!!! How can i stop the taunting by much more popular kids who have gone out with like 5 people in a month. and will i ever have another chance with her? how can i build even a friendship from "ground zero?" even if it is in a couple of years, she is worth it.
(and for anybody who is going to tell me im too young, go answer another question)
Thank you
Joey
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First of all, you need to work on your self esteem. Kids are mean and pick on other kids who will not stand up for themselves. If you show you are confident and that you don’t care what they say about you, hopefully they will stop teasing you. As for the girl, you deserve someone who is not going to make you feel like crap. Her saying "eewww" in your face is the first sign of her being a girl that you don’t need to be friends with. If she was really your friend, that would have never came out of her mouth. Work on your confidence, things should start improving because you won’t care what anyone else thinks about you. You need to start now, because things will get worse in high school.
yes, you are too young…ignore it, don’t worry about it, so what if they taunt you, they continue to do it because they are obviously getting to you…also, ignore the other girl, if she doesn’t want to speak with you, so be it, just be 13, you have way too much time ahead of you to deal with women and trust me, enjoy this time while you can, because one day, women will enter your life and take it over…you thoughts, your motivations, your pursuits, your responsibilities and it does not end, not until you are 87 and incoherent
she’s only worth it if she thinks you’re worth it and it sure doesn’t sound like she does. ‘relationships’ as you called it are TWO SIDED so even if it hurts, pick it up and move on. As for the taunting, they know it gets to you so why would they stop? you are fueling the fire so laugh it off when they say it and find someone who actually likes you
I think you are spending far too much time worrying about this particular girl. Try ignoring her. Reverse psychology works wonders.
OK First of all talk to her and tell her u didn’t mean to come off like that , U just felt like there was something there and u went with it, Tell her Ur reaction was weird but i accept it, I loved the way we were as Friend and I’m sorry that I messed that up!! … i would like to start over as if that never happened!! ….. As for the people Taunting u That will fade out just let them trust me they’ll get theres when u guys get to high school!! Trust me I was in that same position and all the People Who think R SO KOOL… WONT be In High School….
who gives a shit what they think and go on with your life or go kick some ass
7th grade? Dont take what she said wrong, She is not matured yet mentally. Be her friend and keep it at that. Dont play games with her by ignoring her.. be a gentlemen and be nice. Best of luck to you… BTW 9th grade dating is better.
Start by working on your self confidence.
Do not listen to the other kids.
Do not compare yourself to other kids.
The other kids are going through the same crap that you are but you just do not know it.