How do women feel about prenuptial agreements?
I have a wonderful girlfriend- I foresee us getting married one day. But I am thinking that I would like for her to sign and agree to a prenup agreement. You see, I want to have money saved up for the car of my dreams. I have already told her that part.
I don’t intend nor hope that the marriage fails- but it could happen. You just never know. Hence, I want to know for sure that she wouldn’t try to take away that money that I save up, if we ever decided to go our separate ways. Does that make sense?
I am reasonably sure that an attorney would be able to find out about my secret account- certainly if she informed him/her of its existence. I hope and pray that this never happens- but I can’t predict the future.
So, I feel reluctant to talk to my sweetheart about this. If I try to see things from her point of view, I can understand why it may bother her if I wanted to have a prenup. It may even suggest that I feel that we may not stay together forever.
What do you think?
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I think it fine to have a pre-nup it can make divorce if it happens and statics say 53% i believe much easier!For a car though that might be a bit extreme?
I don’t have a problem with pre-nups? I mean one out of two marriages end in divorce. However, for a car? Come on, now.
I dont have a problem with prenups…what in the world kinda car are you trying to get?
you should not cherish a car more than your wife and that is exactly what she is going to think if you tell her that
I’m married and didn’t have to sign a pre-nup because neither my husband or I have a lot of money. I don’t believe in them because I think they’re a contract for divorce - but a lot of people believe in them and would do them in a heartbeat.
Me personally, I don’t want to get into a marriage thinking that we are going to be getting a divorce and signing a prenup would make me think that.
Prenups are good. I don’t have one with my wife, but when we got married, we had about $200 between us and the house and car I bought before we were married are the kind of thing I’d be more than happy to talk it out with a lawyer at the time for. On the other hand, I’ve seen couples who married where one or the other or both brought a lot to the marriage, and lost it all in the divorce.
Prenups are fine. They are there to protect what you have earned yourself. If I had a lot of money or was worth a lot, as a woman, I would also get one. It doesn’t mean you have doubts about the marriage- you are just protecting something you have worked for or have invested.
i think if you need 1 of them then you shouldnt be geting married sorry
but you only get married if you know its right