HELP! My Marriage is Falling Apart! What Should I Do For MY 1 Year old daughter?
Me & my husband have been togather 4 years and married three. We have a 13 month old. Me and my husband have faught alot in the past & he has put his hands on me. I have been feeling weird these last couple of months towards him. I don’t have the desire for sex nor’ do i enjoy it anymore. & i don’t feel anything special anymore when we cuddle or spend time togather. I dont want to be with anyone else or if i were to become single i wouldnt wanna date for a while. I just don’t think i am happy anymore. sometimes i dread for him to come home from work. He is constantly putting me down since i am a stay at home mom. He doe’nt want me to get a job or anything. a stay at home mom is what he wants me to be. He is a sub contractor for a construction company that builds buildings. And he’s always telling i would get fired if i had a job and espeacialy if i had to do his job. He comes home telling me what to do and demanding that it gets done right then and there. But the confusing part about all of this is that for some reason i dont wanna leave him.And i know thats what i should do. But i am just not sure what it it is yet that holds me back. I dont know if i still love him or not because i dont have any romantic feelings for him anymore. I only know one reason why i am still trying to act like everything is okay between us and that would be my 13 month old daughter. Please help me out and give me advice and tell me what you think might be going on with me in this relationship and is there anything i can do to try to fix this. & what should i do for my daughters sake. thanks so much!
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Counseling is always a good option, but if he’s hurting you think about what he’ll eventually do to your daughter. It’s time to leave. He is no good. Get support from family and friends so that you can leave. Anyone could get a job and his isn’t exactly rocket science. I can tell from the way you write that you’re intelligent enough to leave his sorry a$s behind. Please talk to your family about this, they know you better than me and can help you.
Also you can try the different organizations that help emotionally and physically abused women.
He will most likely hurt your daughter, this isn’t healthy. Get out of this relationship! You can do whatever you put your mind to!
My parents have stayed together for mine and my sisters sake but it’s fucked me up in the head seeing them fight so much. You should split up it’s probably best for your daughter especially as she’s so young.
leave him, he is a jerk. It’s better now than later when your daughter would have to experience the divorce when she’d have a better memory.
Sadly, I suggest you put her up for adoption. Just be sure she goes to a good family.
marriage councilor.
I’m no expert, but I think you should ALWAYS set an example for your daughter. How would you want HER to act in your situation? Would you want her to spend her life with someone who puts her down all the time?
If it were me in this situation, I would insist on couple’s therapy. If there hasn’t been abuse or adultery, try to salvage the relationship for everyone’s sake. If it doesn’t work, at least you’ll know you tried.
your daughter would have to experience the divorce when she’d have a better memory.