Couples counseling gone array?
Brian Henderson and his wife, Toni, have been coming to see me for counseling. Their problem isn’t an uncommon one. He isn’t aroused by his wife so he claims impotence. She doesn’t know that he has had a girlfreind on the side for about a year and a half. My goal is to get him to drop the girlfriend and become interested in his wife once again. The major difficulty in this is that they live in the small town of Cole Camp, Missouri. There aren’t really any viable dating options in the town. And he doesn’t drive due to a DWI suspension that he got a few months ago. They have a suitable house located at 1251 S Montgomery in Cole Camp, Missouri( I can’t disclose the zipcode due to patient confidentiality laws). It is about three blocks from the local park. What suggestions would you have for this couple?
That makes more sense. Awry.
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ok, the laws prevent you from giving the zip code you can you release the property address and their names and their business on Yahoo Answers? that doesn’t break the confidentiality law?
my suggestion to the couple is to tell "just Bob" to get lost because he’s dumb.
You being a counselor is like Bill Clinton being president of the Keep Your Zipper Up Society.
F*cking impossible to even imagine.
Not so sureyou should be in the marriage counseling business, as youve just about violate every confidentiality areas there is by telling the whole world lone less Cole Camp their marriage problms and you cant handle this. You better go for more training. This is basic. You get him to dump the girlfriend and then work on getting them back together again without any outside influence. I sure do pray these people arent paying you to spread their names all over the world. I se Im not referring anyone to you. I guess this is why they call Missouri the "show me " state? Also forfuture use, if people can get to your question and read it, then they are surly smart enough to get a zip code
Well Bob, for starters, I sure hope that you’ve changed the names to protect their privacy.
I think you’ve missed the mark on a few points. It would seem that Brian is no longer attracted to his wife, and this may go to many levels, starting with no longer liking her as a person, to not respecting her, loss of mutual interest, etc. If Brian has had a girlfriend for a year and a half, perhaps he’s in love with this woman and not his wife.
Once a man cheats on his wife, it is nearly impossible to get him to rekindle the "old flame."
Brian needs to get his act together so he doesn’t get another DWI. Could it be that his miserable marriage drives him to drink?
If Toni isn’t gainfully employed full time, I’d suggest she get a job in order to be independent from Brian. If either of them has family nearby, once Brian levels with his wife about the other woman, one of them must agree to move out and go live with family.
Brian’s girlfriend needs to have higher aspirations. A DWI is a red flag no no that screams "RUN"!!
Divorce seems the reasonable option for this couple. Their marriage was over long before Brian decided to look to have an affair outside of the marriage.
Like I said with the name thing, Bob. Hope you kept confidentiality on that score as well……
I’d suggest they sue you for everything you have.
First off…. you give names… addresses…. issues… and everything…. then say you can’t give a zipcode…. due to confidentiality.
didn’t seem to bother you when you divulged everything that you did.
Obviously, you are not a licensed counselor…. so they can sue you for that as well.
If I was you…. I’d pack my bags…. and skip town… before the local and federal police show up.
You can’t disclose the zipcode because of patient confidentiality laws…but you can use his first and last name, city, state and street address…huh?
Why not give us your phone number so we can call ya to discuss it more vividly
Take a walk together in that local park that’s there 3 blocks away from their 1251 S Montgomery Cole Camp, Missouri address.
What, pray tell, did these people do to get you to put their life story with addresses (and directions, no less) on the internet? Harsh one, dude!
Um–and this is not a violation of patient confidentiality laws?
You gave their address. I can just go to usps.com and enter it into zipcode lookup.
I can probably find their phone number, too…
Arrays don’t bother me, except for when things go awry.
to change counselor
LMAO You are so retarded…go back to school before trying to be witty…Oh sorry WHITTEE
Hmmmm, I think I’ll just go talk to them myself. 1252 S Montgomery in Cole Camp, Missouri…can you give me directions? I understand that you can’t give me the zip code due to the confidentiality law, but you can draw a map, right?
As for everybody getting all offended, it is only A JOKE.
Obviously, when you have extra time on your hands you use it to be destructive and try to get people’s goats. I would imagine if you are a counselor you are a self appointed counselor who’s practice is limited to such sites as Yahoo Answers or butting in on your buddies lives with your nonsense you call advise. I’ve seen some of your so called advise on here and strikes me that you are individual destine to get laughs or stir up emotion with no real thoughtfulness or insight to your answers. Have fun playing around and hopefully no one gets too offended by your shenanigans.
THIS IS BS YOU CAN’T DISCLOSE ANY OF THIS FIRST OR LAST NAMES AND ESPECIALLY THEIR ADDRESS THIS IS EITHER REALLY FAKE OR YOU ARE A REALLY REALLY BAD COUNSELOR AND THEY SHOULD SUE YOU. SO AGAINST HIPPA LAWS!!!!!!!
Troll. If you really were a counselor, you would know that you already broke the patient/councelor confidentiality law simply by talking about them.
I suggest you change your name to Just Boob.
Your the counselor! Shouldn’t you know?!
lol—happy friday just bob
too funny
LOL…someone is a bitter betty
No offense Counselor BoB, but I think marital counseling is all BS and is a major waste of time…..I think he needs to leave his wife and to call his girlfriend so she can come over and pick him up at home….or he could walk to the local park to and meet her there….that sounds like a safer option in my opinion….