I want to do my history research paper on gay rights and gay marriage. I want to take the pro- stance, but I don’t know how to turn that into a thesis. Thanks for any help.

I have pressure from both parents my parents. Do I really have a Love Marriage in my fate. My Date of Birth February 03, 1986, Time of Birth 10:21. Place of Birth Bangalore.

I really need help. I’m male 26 years old. I live with my fiancee already 2 years. We have regular sex life together. We met 4 years ago and both were virgins. Now we are engaged and planing our weddings after 1 year. Somehow i feel like i’d like to wait. To stop a little. I love her and i like having sex with her. But somewhere inside i regret losing mines and taking hers virginity. I feel like we should have saved it till marriage. Now i’m planing to talk to her, that i want to became abstinent till marriage. I don’t know how she would react. I’m confused and afraid to change our sexual life. Don’t know what do, only thing i know, i want to share sexless intimacy till our wedding night. Any advice?

My 23 year old male friend is a virgin and he is planning on getting married next year to his first relationship girl. They have been together only 3 months now! I wish he could have a little fun first… what do you think? I was wondering why people say have all the fun before marriage and then settle down. Does it really help or it actually destroys… when you eventually get married?

I am 23 year old and my wife is 20 years old. we have been married 8 months and dated 3 years. We both have full time jobs and attend college at night. Depression and Bipolar disease run in her family. In my opinion she suffers both. Anyway she told me the other night that she loves me but is no longer in love with me and that she wants a divorce. t I have beensomewhat distant from her because 1 year before we got married and about 3 months after we got engaged she had a fling with another guy. It was not physical cause i took care of that on the wedding night but I think that she honestly fell for the other guy but felt like she had to marry me. I went ahead with it because I thought marriage could save us BIG MISTAKE. I know I screwed up big time because I never really forgave her for the other guy and that made us grow apart. I know that her depression and the bipolar are affecting her decision to some point how can stall her till the depression wave subsides cause I do love her
Ya I have suggest her seeing a counselor but she thinks I am over the top and that She needs no help. I want to be with her but I guess it is kinda too good to leave but too bad to stay kinda thing. I know a lot of my problem is that I don’t take major change good and I like to hold on too long in relationships. Maybe she is right and we should split but I don’t want to be a worthless human being for 6 months or however long it takes me to heal myself.
To her if I say that she does something because of the depression it is like a cheap move. Like something only a lowlife would suggest as a cause to get their way
first of all I am not the only person that believes she suffers from the depression all of her close family members think she does and more times than not she will come out and ask questions like "how bad am I when I get depressed?" Now the bipolar disease has been found in every woman in the family for the last 4 generations and the family has stories that would move it out to 7 or 8 generations back. So I am not making this condition up.

I really need help. I’m male 26 years old. I live with my fiancee already 2 years. We have regular sex life together. We met 4 years ago and both were virgins. Now we are engaged and planing our weddings after 1 year. Somehow i feel like i’d like to wait. To stop a little. I love her and i like having sex with her. But somewhere inside i regret losing mines and taking hers virginity. I feel like we should have saved it till marriage. Now i’m planing to talk to her, that i want to became abstinent till marriage. I don’t know how she would react. I’m confused and afraid to change our sexual life. Don’t know what do, only thing i know, i want to share sexless intimacy till our wedding night. Any advice?

There’s something that’s been bothering me for a while and I’ve decided to share with everyone here and hope to seek some advice.

It seems like nothing in this world interests me anymore. I have no passion for anything. I don’t seem to get excited about anything. Anything that a normal person would be happy about does nothing to me. Sometimes I just do stuff to feel "normal", like watch a movie or go out etc.

I find this disturbing because I think in order to be motivated in life there has to be something that makes you "click". I can’t think of anything. Even if I do find something that makes me excited, it only lasts for short while and then I am back to my original "I don’t really care" state. It’s like I have no reason to get out of my bed everyday.

I have been on Zoloft for 3 years and it has helped some, but lately things seem to be getting worse. Everyday I get up and I have nothing to look forward to. It’s like I’ve given up on happiness…I don’t even want to be happy anymore. I don’t even know what I want.

This is affecting my marriage and my wife wants to divorce me after 12 years together. She just feels alone now because I have withdrawn from life. Work is not much better, I always find a reason to do the bare minimum just to get by. Nothing really makes me want to work hard and I am tired of searching now. I just want to go away from it all, just go away and sit down somewhere for as long as I can…away from everything.

I feel like I am dead inside. There’s no joy or passion inside for anything. It doesn’t make me angry or anything…it just doesn’t make me "feel" anything. I don’t feel like talking to anyone, even with family and only do so when absolutely necessary.

I don’t have any problems in life. Only thing I can think of is that my job is absolutely boring, but I am trying to change this. May be it’s the job, but I just feel like even I had an interesting job, it wouldn’t really make any difference. Right now I just suck the passion out of everything.

Is something wrong with me?

Many many thanks for taking time to read and for all answers

where can i get a decently nice purposal ring and how much can i expect to spend.

i think about her all the time but i don’t want to anything about it. i get mad when she speaks about other guys but i don’t do anything about it. my parents want me to get arrange marriage. but i don’t want to because the girl will not be someone i know. my parents will go crazy if they found out that i am in love with a "white" girl. they control everything about my life. i know she like me, her friend said so. what do i do. it’s 1 am and i am thinking about her. is this love, i never had a girlfriend or felt this way about a girl.

can some one PLZ help me understand this.