I love him as the father of our children. I am not in love with him. I feel like I go through the motions of life and that I stay for our children. Life is a LONG time to be with someone that I am no longer in love with. Can a counselor help me fall in love again?

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should i be able to use my husbands bank account (married 21 years) he thinks our money should be separate and if i take money out of his account for bill’s grocery shopping ect, we have 4 kids together and have ben married 21 years and we are NOT in the middle of a divorce or anything. just a fight and im asking for a opinion on weather i should be able to have shared money, be able to open his mail and things he doesn’t want me to he says its his not mine bla bla bla. we still live together and stuff. is it legal for me to? whats your opinion

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Is beauty,wealth and inheritance are main features?
What are the good qualities of a lady?
How can understand she is pure or not?
Hindus marriage ceremonies are functioning on the basis of astrology,numerology etc.,

I am planning for marry.
Pls. help me.

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My friend is asking me for advice but I have no idea how to respond.

See, her family is very affluent. Her father is a doctor, her mother a lawyer. So, you get the picture, eh?

Anyway, her fiances family are very poor. So poor in that they can’t afford phones or internet and they were once threatened for eviction. They also depend on their son (my friends fiance) to provide for them because his father is layed off but the job before he was layed didn’t even pay enough so he honestly was okay with it. His mother works full time at an office job with very low pay. He works full time at Walmart.

Anyway, my friend has had major arguments with his family (mainly his mother and sister) about money. The sister also doesn’t understand the point of college because no one in her family went except her brother (my friends fiance). My friend made a comment to the sister about the option of college and almost instantly the sister snapped and cursed her out. She claims that college is for people who care about money too much and then pointed her finger at my friend and called her a greedy spoiled bitch. This girl is 22 and SUPER immature. When I wittnessed this I almost didn’t know how to react. I told her to calm down and then she went at me claiming that I was just as greedy.

She also dropped out of college for an entire year because her boyfriend of 2 weeks broke up with her so as you can see, she’s fairly emotional. Now my friend is backing out of marriage or at least, attempting to because she feels threatened by his family. I honestly feel horrible and I have told her if you love him, stay with me and ignore his family, but the thing is, they live so close and he actually gets along well with his sister…they talk on the phone at least twice a week. Considering that my friend is already living with him and has to answer the phone or listen to his conversations with the sister, she gets so depressed. I know he loves her, but he loves his sister too. He tried to talk to his sister, but nothing goes through her brain. My friend is backing out and she has told me she wants me to convince her to stick with the plan and marry the guy of her dreams.. I don’t know what to do. I told her to go for it but she needs more help.

PLEASE I BEG YOU OUT OF THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART, HELP ME HELP HER.
*stay with him.
"csucdart…" it’s about my friend getting into marriage. she is currently engaged and soon to be married. that is why this is under marriage.

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I have a wife and son who i love. But i also love strippers. How can i stop liking strippers so much or maybe have my cake and eat it too. Also don’t give me stupid links to sites if you can’t come up with a real answer.
I wouldn’t mind her going to strip clubs. My wife wont strip for me either though lets be honest, after having steak for four years, sometimes you just want a burger. It also doesn’t matter if you think it’s a 13 year old problem cuz they can’t get into strip clubs but i can. I don’t care how old you are, a hot women is a hot women. I’d obviously not like to hurt my wife and son and not live my life alone, but i’ll always have this urge to see other women which is the real problem. Strippers are just a way to keep me from starting random relationships with real women.
Good answer, Darlene. Obviously you have much experience and wisdom. If only you could be an ambassador to the world, then we would never have war again.
DJ i like your answer best. It’s non-judgemental and pretty logical. Thank you

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I need some help in reference to my marriage :/

My wife and I have been together for 20 years as acouple. We got married 1 1/2 yrs ago. Our personal life together has slowly been crumbling due to the fact that she has a VERY disfunctional family, and when its not comsuming her time, she is negative and pissed at the world and hates everyone because of it. She cant seem to get out of denial that its her fault for letting it control her life, she is 30 yrs old I might add. Well, in turn, I have become more interested in other things, such as pc games, and racing nitro rc cars and hanging with friends. IM trying to seperate myself from the negativity / disfunction. Our time spent together is very dull and bland, and that bothers me, I cant find ANYTHING she enjoys doing to help mend things and bring us back together. She made a topic on me last night, she is in COMPLETE denial, she talked about how i work out of town, and race rc cars, thast my defense instead of leaving, please help

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California’s status on the legality of same sex marriage is unique,
in the sense that gay married used to be legal.
It was declared a fundamental right under the state constitution.

and then that right was taken away through a constitutional amendment.

and as it stands now, 18,000 same sex couples are legally married in CA.

So here’s my question:

Does this help the plaintiffs at all?

Were they better off filing this lawsuit in California…………….
then in states like Colorado and Oregon?

In Colorado, same sex marriage has never been legal.

Do you think the fact that same sex marriage used to be legal in CA is going to make any difference?

Judge Walker ruled in their favor……………….
but his ruling appeared to be very broad.
not specific to the circumstances of California.

Realistically, could you see the Supreme Court giving the plaintiffs a favorable but narrow ruling that only applies to California?
or is this an all-or-nothing deal?

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