September, 2009




I have a very friendly/clingy cat who craves attention and always jumps into the bed while me and my partner are being intimate . You set her down gently and she jumps right back onto the bed .
When I try putting her out of the room and closing the door , she scratches to be let in .

She pays her toys no attention and when i try feeding her canned wet food , she finishes it too quickly.

What to do ?




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I am already in my late twenties living in such a meat market as Los Angeles is! I think is a challenge to meet god men here and decided to give online dating a try. I posted an ad in Craigslist but Ive been disappointed with the guys Ive met. Either they are not single, broke, or not my type. Do you guys think its the website that I am using? Can anyone give tell me a success story from this site?




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Did any married couples live together beforehand? How long? At what time did you get engaged? Before or After? Do you think your relationship is any stronger because of your decision? Why did you wait? Or not?

If you aren’t married, I totally respect that too, a piece of paper doesn’t seal or secure anything, I’m just curious about those that did WANT marriage.
Smile- 2 years?!? Wow, I think we had our first fight that 1st week..Over to squeeze the toothpaste from the middle (me) or obsessively compulsively from the bottom (him) We got our own tubes after that….
Court- Of course I don’t mind! I should have included couples living together, plans to marry, thank you :)




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i have requested a running statement of charges to date. i also paid him for a mediation fee and requested a receipt. my email to him has been ignored (surprise). can i threaten to stop payment on the check until my requests are satisfied?




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What has been the average grieving period for the breakup of a commited relationship? I kind of feel bad because I have given up any hope of getting back together and, in my mind, have moved on. I am not angry. I am not actively seeking a new relationship, but I have let go.
I didn’t mention she initated the break up one short month ago.




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Hi, I have a friend who was injured and has had surgery to repair damage caused by accident. She will be going for mediation and we both are wondering how should dress and groom for this appointment.




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My husband said it was Haram for married couples to hug in public even if everyone around them knew they were married.
I don’t think it’s haram. That is what he said.




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Im 13 in 7th grade, and i made a HUGE mistake. At the beginning of the year, i asked out a cute girl who i did not really build a relationship, bacause i was kinda depressed. i kinds thought she liked me. she would talk to me, and make jokes wit me, but after i asked her out, and she rejected me by saying "eew" (not kidding) everything fell apart. she doesnt talk to me or anything, and barely looks at me. in the mean time, people are taunting me from when i asked her out 5 MONTHS AGO!!!! How can i stop the taunting by much more popular kids who have gone out with like 5 people in a month. and will i ever have another chance with her? how can i build even a friendship from "ground zero?" even if it is in a couple of years, she is worth it.
(and for anybody who is going to tell me im too young, go answer another question)
Thank you
Joey




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We’ve only been going out for a couple weeks, but I really don’t like him anymore. He hardly ever calls me and I think he is seeing other girls. Should I just stop taking his calls and ignore him, or actually try to see him to break up?




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I’m looking at going back to school soon to get my masters in counseling or psychology. I’ve decided that I really want to help people, because I’ve always been passionate about inspiring others. College, marriage, and drug/alcohol counseling/psychology are my main interests. At least until I go back to school, I’m trying to find a job that can help me pay off my college loans for my bachelor’s degree I received in English. I figure if I can get experience under my belt now, it’ll be excellent resume material for grad school and my future career path. In addition to helping others, I also love to write. People tell me I have a profound insight into the world around me.

How could I get experience in helping others without a professional counseling/psychology degree, if at all? If not, could I at least immerse myself in the field as a counseling assistant, some type of specialist, or even a secretary with my English degree? I really don’t want to work in retail or any kind of business to pay off my college loans anymore, because it’s quite boring, not my forte’, and I feel like I’m not really taking advantage of my degree.




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